Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay: A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship

Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay: A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship

by Mira Kirshenbaum

4.5 (3,438)

4.5 stars from 3,438 reviews. Top 66% of Self Help books we track.

304 pages~5.1 hr readPublished by Brilliance AudioPublished 1996-01-01

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Perfect for you if...

  • You're stuck in that grey zone where you genuinely don't know if your relationship is worth saving or if you're just afraid to start over.
  • You've tried talking it through with friends but keep going in circles, and you need a structured framework to think it through properly.
  • You value practical self-analysis over vague therapy-speak and want actionable clarity, not just validation.

Maybe not for you if...

  • You've already decided to leave and are just looking for permission or justification to go through with it.
  • You're in an abusive or unsafe relationship where the question isn't whether to stay but how to leave safely.
  • You prefer emotional storytelling and narrative over workbook-style self-reflection and concrete questions.

About this book

Mira Kirshenbaum draws on years of counseling experience to help readers navigate uncertainty about their relationships. The book presents 36 questions and self-analysis techniques designed to address the core issues in relationships and marriages. The guide offers practical advice applicable to both new and established relationships, presenting information and therapeutic experience in a straightforward, concise format.

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