Finding God Through Sex: Awakening the One of Spirit Through the Two of Flesh

Finding God Through Sex explores how sexual intimacy can become a spiritual practice. David Deida argues that when conventional sexual experiences no longer satisfy, there is an opportunity to pursue a deeper spiritual path through sexuality. He presents an approach in which sex becomes an act of devotional surrender, described as "making love, magnifying love, from the boundless depth of your heart through every inch of your body and in merger with your lover." The book uses illustrative scenarios and direct instruction to address both masculine and feminine desires. Drawing on 30 years of work with couples, Deida outlines distinct yet complementary paths that men and women can follow toward deeper passion and spiritual connection. He describes the ultimate goal as learning to "love as the cosmos loves: One loving itself as an other, yet remembering itself as One."