Passionista: The Empowered Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man (Kerner Book 4)

Passionista: The Empowered Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man (Kerner Book 4)

by Ian Kerner

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Perfect for you if...

  • You want to understand your partner's sexuality as deeply as you understand your own, beyond guesswork and assumptions.
  • You're curious about the science and psychology behind male desire, and you want practical techniques backed by real knowledge.
  • You appreciate sex advice that's frank, witty, and treats female pleasure as equally important as male satisfaction.

Maybe not for you if...

  • You're looking for a book focused primarily on your own pleasure. This is the male counterpart to She Comes First, not a replacement for it.
  • You prefer clinical, detached sex advice without personality or humour woven through.
  • You're not comfortable with explicit discussions of sexual techniques and male anatomy.

About this book

Passionista builds on Ian Kerner's earlier work by shifting focus to male sexuality and pleasure. The book offers practical guidance on understanding what attracts and satisfies men, covering topics including male orgasm, the distinction between 'local' and 'global' orgasm, sexual communication about fantasies and desires, and techniques for maintaining passion over time through what Kerner calls the 'shaky bridge' approach. The guide addresses fellatio and manual stimulation, building desire through understanding attraction's brain chemistry, and creating excitement before reaching the bedroom. Written in the same accessible and witty style as Kerner's previous books, Passionista presents itself as a comprehensive resource for women seeking to understand male sexuality and enhance their own sexual experiences.

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