She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman (Kerner)

She Comes First is a guide to oral sex that presents a new philosophy for pleasuring women. According to sex therapist Ian Kerner, oral sex should be considered "coreplay"—central to mutual satisfaction—rather than foreplay. The book provides practical techniques and detailed information about female anatomy, including the clitoris, G-spot, and the female orgasm. It addresses common gaps in sexual knowledge and offers a shame-free approach to sexual fulfillment. The guide covers a range of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman, moving beyond guesswork to help men understand the art of female pleasure. It combines informative content with practical advice designed to improve sexual relationships and ensure mutual satisfaction.