Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder

Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder

by Paul T. T. Mason MS

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286 pages~4.8 hr readPublished by New Harbinger Publications

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Perfect for you if...

  • You're in a relationship with someone whose emotional intensity leaves you exhausted and you need practical ways to set boundaries without triggering rage.
  • You're questioning whether you're losing your mind in the face of constant manipulation, contradictions, and blame that never quite makes sense.
  • You care deeply about someone but recognise their behaviour is harming you, and you want to help them without sacrificing your own wellbeing.

Maybe not for you if...

  • You're looking for a book that will convince someone with BPD to change, because this focuses on what you can control, not them.
  • You want to diagnose or treat BPD yourself, as this is a guide for loved ones, not a clinical manual.
  • You're hoping for a quick fix to end the relationship without difficult conversations, since this is about stabilising the dynamic, not escape routes.

About this book

This fully revised third edition addresses relationships with people who have borderline personality disorder (BPD)—a mood disorder characterized by negative self-image, emotional instability, and interpersonal difficulties. The book is designed for those who feel manipulated, controlled, or subjected to intense rages, and who modify their behavior to avoid confrontation. The guide helps readers understand BPD, establish boundaries, and encourage loved ones to move away from harmful BPD behaviors. This edition includes updated research on comorbidity, information about narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), schema therapy effectiveness, and practical coping and communication strategies. The book provides tools to clarify confusing situations, assert personal needs, reduce arguments and conflict, and protect yourself and others from violent behavior. It offers step-by-step guidance for restoring peace and stability to relationships affected by BPD or NPD.

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