The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control: A Path to Peace and Power

The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control: A Path to Peace and Power

by Katherine Morgan Schafler

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4.6 stars from 776 reviews. Top 92% of Self Help books we track.

Published by Orion Publishing Group, LimitedPublished 2023-01-01

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Perfect for you if...

  • You're a high-achiever who's exhausted by generic advice to 'relax more' and want permission to want ambitious things without guilt.
  • You recognise yourself in perfectionism but suspect the real problem isn't wanting excellence, it's how you're going about it.
  • You're drawn to psychological frameworks that name your patterns and give you practical ways to work with them instead of against yourself.

Maybe not for you if...

  • You believe perfectionism is inherently toxic and should be eliminated entirely from your thinking.
  • You're looking for a quick-fix self-help book without psychological depth or nuance.
  • You prefer workbooks with exercises over narrative-driven psychology with stories and theory.

About this book

From psychotherapist Katherine Morgan Schafler, a guide that challenges how people understand perfectionism and themselves. Rather than eliminating perfectionism to achieve health, Schafler argues that you can manage it to work in your favor. The book identifies five types of perfectionism: Classic, Intense, Parisian, Messy, and Procrastinator. By identifying your unique profile, you'll learn strategies to manage each form and ultimately embrace your perfectionism. The book uses stories, humor, and empathy to explore how ambitious, high-achieving people can want more without guilt or shame. Schafler, a former on-site therapist at Google, draws on her experience working with clients in her private practice. The book offers an alternative to generic advice about finding balance, instead showing readers how to exchange superficial control for real power.

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