You Are Not Broken: Stop "Should-ing" All Over Your Sex Life

Many women find their sex lives fall short of what they might hope for. This gap often stems from cultural influences—including Hollywood portrayals and societal reluctance to discuss sex openly—rather than any personal failing. Women rarely receive education about what genuinely contributes to sexual satisfaction, the importance of anatomical knowledge, or why female pleasure matters. In You Are Not Broken, Dr. KJ Casperson draws on her background as a urologist, coach, and woman asking her own questions about sexual fulfillment. She examines how to shift perspective and explains the physiological aspects that make women's sexuality distinct. The book connects improved sexual experiences to stronger intimate partnerships. It includes real-life examples, journaling prompts, and conversation starters to help readers engage with these topics and build the sex life they want.